is normal different?

I want to be different. Plain and simple. And for a while, I was a bit different than half the population, but now I dress just like everyone else, maybe not everybody but most of the people I see. I remember when i first read things about Warped Tour and saw pictures, and it was filled with liberty spiked hair, plaid pants, and real punks. This was my first year at Warped Tour, and i know it was a while ago, I'm just bringing it up now for an example, and anyway, i arrived thinking, I'd see classic warped tour, but i was mistaken, it was full of big sunglasses, bright colors, and skimpy clothes. I thought it was cool to dress like this, and i thought i was different because of it, but after going there, i was ashamed to dress like that. so now, my big question is, is it different to be 'normal'?